The Perfect Femme For HER

THE WAYS OF THE OLD SCHOOL

A faithful, loving, intelligent and affectionate femme is all an old

school butch ideally desires to have. A woman at home can either

decorate or destroy home life. A good femme can really make a

home a heaven on earth with her boundless love and unflinching

loyalty to her butch.

We all know that beauty is only skin deep, the smart butch will always

prefer good character and loyalty to the beauty of femme when it

comes to a long term commitment. A beautiful femme without

character is like a flower without fragrance. A loving old school

femme wishes to be considerate, caring, sharing, understanding and

loving to the core. She wants to understand her butchs’ needs and be

her best friend, sharing her joys and sorrows, and ups and downs of

life. She wants to be a supportive help mate and make things easier

and more pleasant for her stud.

A butch has to deal with many issues walking proudly in the

heterosexual world. She confronts all sorts of problems and deals with

different kinds of people in her day-to-day life. In these tension-filled

times, she wants to have a comfortable, peaceful and soothing

atmosphere at home when she returns from work. An understanding

and considerate femme welcomes her and relieves her of all her

stress the best way she can. Don’t harass your butch as soon as she

steps in the door. Allow her to relax. Help her to relax deserves

peace of mind and serenity. You can be her soft place to fall after a

hard day. Trust me, you will be cherished for that alone.

A butch loves to have a femme who supports her in times of adversity

and stands by her side. She wants her femme to be invested and

interested in fulfilling her needs, making her completely satisfied. She

also wants her love for her femme to be equally reciprocated. Old

school femmes do understand all these things and desire to be in

harmony with the wants and desires of their butches.

Most butches cannot stand a femme who is constantly fighting or

wanting to argue all the time about something. This will deprive them

of inner peace and comfort. They, sometimes, even overlook the

shortcomings and faults of their femmes to make them realize how

much they love them. Similarly, they expect their femmes to be

forgiving, tolerant, broad-minded and understanding to make their

relationship work.

Old school butches respect their femmes and expect to be respected

by them. They reserve their genuine love only for their femmes and

hope the same from them. It is a very lucky stud who can find a

good femme to make their home a place full of joy and happiness.

DON’T BE THE PERFECT FEMME. BE THE PERFECT FEMME FOR HER!

The question should not be how to be the perfect femme, but how

to be the perfect femme to your butch? The reason is everyone is

different, therefore every relationship is different. When you get into

a relationship with a butch you know (or should know) all about their

personality, what makes them happy, sad, scared, angry, etc.

People in my life often disagree with me when I say this but I want to

make my butch the happiest woman on the planet! A lot of times

when I say I want to make her happiest woman alive I get

the response, How about you? Well making her happy is going to

make me happy! I would never let my butch take advantage of my

kindness but I know the kind of butch I prefer will understand

that! A relationship should be a happy and healthy one between

two women who love each other.

Back to the topic; How to be the perfect femme for her!

1) Don't be THE stress in your butch’s life, be a stress reliever. Be

someone who gives stress a break from their daily lives!

2) Be emotionally available to them. When they have problems in

their lives be someone they can come to talk to about their

problems and try everything to make them better.

3) Don't be insecure! If your in a relationship you need to trust this

person, constantly accusing them of cheating will destroy the

relationship. If your butch did cheat on you before and you choose to

stay with her do not think it gives you the right to be insecure. If you

cannot handle not being insecure you should not be with her.

4) Be a lover and a friend be someone your stud wants to be

around, someone she wants to spend her free time with!

5) Support her and be her number one fan. Life is hard and you are

going to come across bad people who put you down. Make sure

you are always the one who is on your butch’s team!

A complete relationship involves two people, both people have to

work on it. I am not saying by any means you should be taken

advantage of. If you are in a healthy relationship your butch will be

doing the same things for you!